Ladies and Gentlemen, My name is Peace and i am the lady in the trending engagement video that has re-posted by a lot of people who are ill-informed as to what actually transpired.
Naturally I’ll overlook it but seeing that it has created a wrong misinterpretation in the minds of the large audience, I am forced to set the records straight:
- The Guy in the video who proposed to me is NOT a student of Akwa Ibom State Polytechnic, Ikot Osurua but rather bases in Port Harcourt.
- Prior to that fateful engagement day, we had an unresolved outstanding issue which promoted him to travel (without my knowledge) from Port Harcourt to Ikot Ekpene to see me in other to resolve it.
- Upon his arrival, we talked at length physically of which I told him that everything is okay. He kept on pressuring till the morning of the next day of which I still told him we’re cool.
- While I was in school, I got a call from him telling me he was in my school and I wondered why because I felt he returned back to Port Harcourt ONLY to meet him at the video spot with an engagement ring.
- The reason why I delayed in accepting his proposal is because I was unsure and not because I was engaged to someone else as wrongly peddled.
- How can you say “Yes” to a guy who invades your privacy (social media accounts) at every instance even when he knows you’re faithful to him despite male pressure? How can you say “Yes” to a guy who assumes he’s right all the time? How can you say “Yes” to a guy who makes you feel so inferior of yourself? How can you say “Yes” to a guy who is so insecure and stops you from socializing? How can you say “Yes” to someone who visits at odd hours (10.00pm) from Port Harcourt just to catch me red handed and always disappointed? How can you say “Yes” to a guy that is hot tempered and argues a lot? How can you say “Yes” to a guy who doubts that you are in church and wants live video evidences (lack of trust)? How can you say “Yes” to a guy who is jealous to the extent that should i be on call even with my parents, he needs evidences? How can you say “Yes” to a guy who wants explanation for every single call you pick whenever you are with him?
- We just settled an issue and the 1st thing that comes into his mind is to propose to me??? Is that how things are done? Would you allow your sister, cousin or friend accept such a proposal?
- I tried to reason with him and beg him to stop embarrassing me and himself but he refused and turned the whole scenario to look as if am the bad one here. Several times I have told him I am not yet ready for marriage, so why the rush to engage me?
- Let me state it clearly here that I am NOT ENGAGED to ANYONE or even getting married in September as being peddled around. This fake news was spread by someone I know (name withheld) who wants the guy in the video to date her.
- Let me also add that in the presence of my parents, I had returned the ring back to him and the relationship ENDED.
- I am a strong believer of the saying that “God’s time is the best”. I am not in any competition with anyone and definitely what is mine will come at the right time.
The general public is adviced to take this is the true position of thing and respect my privacy as we are all entitled to one.
Allow me to breathe in peace! Don’t suffocate me!
